Have you ever used the phrase “in the meantime” to describe what you’re doing while waiting for something else to happen? Maybe it’s waiting for a new job, a relationship to flourish, or a big break you’ve been dreaming of. Typically, we think of “in the meantime” as a temporary stage, but for many of us, it becomes a phase of life—a place where we linger, often unsure of how to move forward.
I’ve been there—caught between dreaming of something better and fearing the risks that come with stepping toward it. Sometimes, staying in the planning stage felt safer than starting the work because it shielded me from the possibility of failure or disappointment. But over time, I learned that waiting doesn’t have to mean standing still.
As Dr. Seuss wrote in Oh, The Places You’ll Go!:
“…or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting.”
But what if we stopped waiting and started doing?
Waiting is inevitable in life, but how you wait matters. Instead of passively marking time, you can embrace the “in the meantime” as an opportunity for growth, preparation, and self-discovery. Here’s what I’ve learned about turning waiting into action:
1. Embrace Where You Are
Every season has a purpose, even the ones that feel stagnant or frustrating. Take a moment to reflect on where you are now. What lessons can you learn? What strengths are you developing?
Action Step: Write down three things you’re grateful for in your current season. Gratitude can shift your perspective and help you see this time as preparation, not punishment.
2. Trust the Process
God has a plan for your life, even if you can’t see it yet. The waiting period may feel like an interruption, but it’s often a time of refining and growth. Trust that the experiences you’re having now are equipping you for what’s next.
Action Step: Spend time in prayer, meditation, or journaling to reflect on how this season might be preparing you for your future. Ask yourself: What am I learning? How can I grow?
3. Do the Work
This is where the magic happens. Active waiting means taking steps to better yourself while trusting the timing of what’s to come. Self-reflection and self-improvement during the “in the meantime” can propel you into your next phase of life.
Action Steps for Active Waiting:
- Self-Reflection: Take time to assess your strengths, weaknesses, and passions. What lights you up? What areas need growth?
- Skill Development: Learn something new. Take a course, read a book, or pick up a skill that will support your goals.
- Set Goals: Define clear, actionable steps for where you want to go. Break them down into small, achievable milestones.
- Build Your Network: Use this time to connect with others who can support and guide you. Relationships are a powerful tool for growth.
4. Be Patient and Persistent
Sometimes, we want to rush into the next phase without fully finishing the one we’re in. But patience is key to sustainable success. Rushing often leads to incomplete work or missed lessons.
Action Step: Remind yourself daily that growth takes time. Celebrate small wins along the way to stay motivated and focused.
5. Stay Positive and Focused
It’s easy to feel discouraged during the waiting period, especially if it feels long. Surround yourself with positivity—uplifting people, encouraging books, and affirmations that remind you of your worth and potential.
Action Step: Choose one small thing each day that brings you joy or peace. Whether it’s a walk outside, a favorite song, or a conversation with a friend, these moments can help you stay grounded.
A Final Thought
“In the meantime” doesn’t have to be a passive space. It’s a place where you can grow, prepare, and take steps toward becoming the person you’re meant to be. It’s not just about waiting for life to happen—it’s about making the most of where you are now so that you’re ready for what’s next.
So, what will you do in your “in the meantime”? Will you wait, or will you work toward the version of yourself that’s ready for the next season? Let me know in the comments.
Remember, this is your journey, and you are capable of making it meaningful.